Coby's health blog

You see your parent’s marriage  as a happy and long lasting marriage. You see your best friends, sisters or brothers are all getting married, which you think is GREAT !.  They look happy and lucky.  But, there’s a problem.  You could not see your self getting married!.  Marriage is look great, but..at some point, it really freaking you out.  When you thought about it, you start to sweating and even can’t breathe!.  Maybe you already have a wonderful boy friend who ready to marry you and you love him to death and would love to marry him. But, once you think about married,..then you got scared!.

Every one have reasons for getting married or not.  Particularly, marriage decision is not easy. Getting married is a crucial stage in our life, so its a crucial decision too. But, if you suffering an endless worried, sleepless night and distress about getting married, you might have a marriage phobia.

What is marriage phobic?

A marriage phobic is an irrational fears from marriage.  Marriages gone bad,  afraid for having unhappy marriage life or not working out, fear of stuck in unwanted marriage life, changing life drastically after marriage and another countless reasons become their fears. At some degree it normal thing, but if happened constantly and intensely, it might be a marriage phobia.

Marriage phobia usually caused by several factors. Most of it caused by personal emotional problems, bad incident or even traumatic moments such failed marriage.

Peoples with marriage phobia usually have difficulties to deal with life’s problem. In their unconscious mind, they have bad feelings and images about marriage that constantly fearing them. Its not only about great doubtness but about fearness as well.  Mentally, peoples with marriage phobia could not only  suffer an endless shadow of problems and anxiety but also affects their confidence for going up their life.  Physically. they could suffer a rapid or shortness of breath,  irregular heartbeat, sweating and dreadful feelings when they watch, heard, or dealt with marriage things.  Those condition may suffered in different ways, degree and symptoms. Marriage phobia could also have a serious impact on their social life too. It may separate them from their loved ones who really intended to make them happy.

Marriage decision is not an easy one. Once you have made decision, you have deal with it risks and consequences. No matter what is. Life is about choices, right?. On the other hand, getting married surely not to be a forced issue too. If someone get pushed for getting married, it may pulled them away.  At some point it will come around.

But, if you had excessively fearness about getting married, derived by uncertain or even unlogical reasons in constant time, so you have to over come it.  Choice is surely yours, but if you haunted by feelings of irrational fearness regularly, its not health.  Make sure that what ever your decision is, its derived by a normal and rational reasons. If it don’t, a counseling session would be needed. Its important to be overcome if you have marriage phobia, because there’s may be someone who’re being tired of the waiting in pain  for marrying you

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