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You see your parent’s marriage  as a happy and long lasting marriage. You see your best friends, sisters or brothers are all getting married, which you think is GREAT !.  They look happy and lucky.  But, there’s a problem.  You could not see your self getting married!.  Marriage is look great, but..at some point, it really freaking you out.  When you thought about it, you start to sweating and even can’t breathe!.  Maybe you already have a wonderful boy friend who ready to marry you and you love him to death and would love to marry him. But, once you think about married,..then you got scared!.

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M Id 209964 couple fight1 Unhappy Marriage, Unhealthy You

Some experts says being single is more healthy than living in an unhappy marriage, at least your blood pressure will not raising up. But, another research shows that marriage couples tend to be healthier than singles. Quite confusing right? he..he…especially for those who are not been married yet.

sometime, when we saw a marriage couples, they  seem to be happy and have a complete life. But, sometime we saw another couple,  marriage seem as a disaster.

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imagesCA09NVPV 2 What Are Toxic In Laws?
Have you ever seen “Everybody loves Raymond”?. a Quite interesting movie. on that movie, mother and father in law always trying to across the line, always make judgment, and never being able to respect any of the boundaries to their child’s affair.
What are Toxic In-Laws?
Marriage experts says that there actually exist type – a bad type one – of parents or family members who always want their child or brothers\sisters stays under their control and try to make sure of it. There’s a concious or unconcious feeling that their role as a parents or brother\sister have been competed or eliminated by other person presence. But they tends not realize or acknowledged it. There’s kind of in-laws that usually do not respect their child’s decisions as an adult and may not even like their child’s choice or existence of spouse. This happens often between the mother-in-Law or sister in law and the wife.

A marriage expert define toxic peoples in to different types, and the most “dangerous” one is called the needy Failure. The type of this person is quite smart – in a deceive way of course-, well balanced and seems to has a good personality, so everyone not very closer to this people will impressed. But, behind that, unfortunately this person can not stand for being nosy or interfering, even they doing it in “silent” way. They felt they know what best and what should be or not to be. This kind of person usually not in relationship person, so they not busy enough to take care his/her own business. Their loneliness and illness to get attention makes them so eager to interfering or critics other’s people business. They tends to envious on something that they can not achieved in their life. This kind of toxic person also has an even darker side than we might think. They absolutely never sympathetic  to your problems, they tends to feel like that a new comer in their family life is nothing than an obstacle.

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law fights 300x218 Toxic In Laws : A Fact Marriage Issue

We likely to believed that people around us are nice and perfect as they might seem. Not trying or intended for being so judge or prejudice, we surely not able to to choose the right and the nicest person around us. Nor to be our close friend or to be our family member. Peoples that we may unconsciously expected who can make our life more easier, not the contrary.

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Ever wonder why people are so nosy on your marriage?. You know, you’re really fine!, so happy!, so much joy!. We have a husband\wife that very loving, dependable, we love and care each other, with a nice and cute little baby?. Then boom!,..a little chit chat, comments, nosy-interfering things comes. We are so fine, until..this person cames out. A person who just can’t stand to let other’s peoples business alone. A person who get anxiety, unhappy, itchy when saw and heard other people seem okey and happy. A person who act like his\her life are fine so he\she felt should interfering. A person who think that his\her life not messed, but really eager to messed up and bother happy-fine relationship.
Why there’s people like this? Are they don’t busy enough to take their own business, or they life so bored-empty miserable, so they can’t stand to watch other’s happiness?. Or human beings are curious nosy by nature? Ha ha..I think there’s some people who has severe nosiness, so they can’t stand if don’t get “busy” about it.

 

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