Archive for the ‘Marriage’ Category
You see your parent’s marriage as a happy and long lasting marriage. You see your best friends, sisters or brothers are all getting married, which you think is GREAT !. They look happy and lucky. But, there’s a problem. You could not see your self getting married!. Marriage is look great, but..at some point, it really freaking you out. When you thought about it, you start to sweating and even can’t breathe!. Maybe you already have a wonderful boy friend who ready to marry you and you love him to death and would love to marry him. But, once you think about married,..then you got scared!.
Some experts says being single is more healthy than living in an unhappy marriage, at least your blood pressure will not raising up. But, another research shows that marriage couples tend to be healthier than singles. Quite confusing right? he..he…especially for those who are not been married yet.
sometime, when we saw a marriage couples, they seem to be happy and have a complete life. But, sometime we saw another couple, marriage seem as a disaster.
A marriage expert define toxic peoples in to different types, and the most “dangerous” one is called the needy Failure. The type of this person is quite smart – in a deceive way of course-, well balanced and seems to has a good personality, so everyone not very closer to this people will impressed. But, behind that, unfortunately this person can not stand for being nosy or interfering, even they doing it in “silent” way. They felt they know what best and what should be or not to be. This kind of person usually not in relationship person, so they not busy enough to take care his/her own business. Their loneliness and illness to get attention makes them so eager to interfering or critics other’s people business. They tends to envious on something that they can not achieved in their life. This kind of toxic person also has an even darker side than we might think. They absolutely never sympathetic to your problems, they tends to feel like that a new comer in their family life is nothing than an obstacle.
We likely to believed that people around us are nice and perfect as they might seem. Not trying or intended for being so judge or prejudice, we surely not able to to choose the right and the nicest person around us. Nor to be our close friend or to be our family member. Peoples that we may unconsciously expected who can make our life more easier, not the contrary.




